Taking Care of Your Family
Are you following a dream or a goal?
Before you start reading, you should know that what I’m about to write may sound calculated, but it is not; it is self-regarding. Having goals may sound selfish or ambitious, or may carry some other feeling that many can find unappealing. But the truth is, if you set goals about the life you want to…
Read MoreMove from frustration and fear into action – Here are three steps you can take.
In my e-book about managing stress through COVID-19, I outline several ways to manage stress through the current pandemic. If you would like to take another look, click here and get a free copy. Perhaps you have suffered the loss of a loved one, your job or your health. Or maybe you have managed through…
Read MoreYou are not failing
You are winning. During the past several weeks, you may have felt scared, anxious, sad angry or frustrated. This is a hard time for most people. As a result, you may have reacted in ways you don’t like. Maybe you have been snarky with your partner, snapped at your kids or ignored tasks that that…
Read MoreWhat to do when you and your partner are not on the same page
Partner A: I want to be hopeful. Partner B: I am afraid to be hopeful. Both points of view are understandable but A and B may not understand each other. It is well known that couples are likely to have more strife during fertility treatment. It is often the first time a couple does not…
Read MoreMaking the Most out of the End of Summer
Many therapists and self-help gurus agree that taking steps to change your mood can help you feel more empowered and happier overall. If we work with this premise, why not use the end of the Summer to press the reset button and re-energize yourself? Use experiences from your past and present to help you feel…
Read MorePlan ahead: How to talk to friends and family about your journey
Families who have non-genetically related children regularly confront many issues. One of these issues concerns the curiosity that many people have about where the child “comes from” or which parent a child resembles. As a result, parents who use egg or sperm donation or adoption to form their families often find themselves fending off unwanted…
Read MoreFamily Stories
Last weekend I had the privilege of running a program called “Family Stories” at the Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Community Center in New York City. It was a wonderful workshop. It included parts of our TIP TOP program for families who are built with the assistance of donor sperm or donor eggs or who…
Read MoreEmotions of Choosing an Egg Donor
FAIRFAX EGGBANK, December 20, 2017 Written by Lisa Schuman, LCSW, a seasoned mental health professional who leads The Center for Family Building. Join her virtually in her monthly support webinar, aimed to address issues specific to third party reproduction including disclosure, development, and parenting. Learn more about her webinar here. So you want to find an…
Read MoreGive the gift of time
Give the gift of time and your children are more likely to give you the gift of willingness. Time is something we can not make more of. We take it for granted, and our children take it for granted, but whether we spend less or more time with our children can have a cumulative effect…
Read MoreNegotiate with your partner for a better family life
When you have children there are so many decisions to be made. Do you feed on demand or on schedule, is breast milk important, is practicing religion important to your family traditions, etc..? If problems arise the stakes get higher and emotions can become intensified. The big and the small questions need negotiation and discussion…
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